Pre-decision and its effect in real life scenario
The importance of thinking before you act; the power of knowledge and analysis. What if you’re in a situation where you took a hasty decision and, in the long run, you hated your decisions?
Ok, I was there, mind if I figured out how it went for me? Yeah, you might learn a little from my mistake.
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There have been a number of times where we make a rash decision without worrying deeply about what the consequences will be, and later on, we regret taking such decisions and even regret being where the wrong actions have been taken.
Now I’m going to share with you a short story about what happened to my mum.
My mum was a very gorgeous girl, so beautiful that every guy needed her to be his wife. In her search to choose a man to marry, she chose my father who already had two wives and several children, but she feels it would be beneficial to her if she married him and ignored the men who had never been married.
Yes of course, it was her decision, so I couldn’t argue her decisions.
Things didn’t go well, and as a result, marriage just brought trouble and hardship to the home, even though my dad was taking care of her.
She started giving birth along the way, and she has five children, which I was the third child in her babies.
Naturally, in a polygamous home everyone only take care of their children and wants the husband only to listen to their opinion so my mom have to work hard to take good care of us as her children though it’s not an easy thing to do but it’s all because she didn’t think before she act.
On a fateful day, she fell sick.
She couldn’t hold up the sickness for too long considering the fact that her husband, my father gave her less attention as he is married to two women, she later passed on.
Then, a few months later my father became sick and quite unfortunately, he died.
I and my siblings have been striving for survival though there are help from people and family but sometimes there are some problems that there won’t be no where to run to all because my mother never thought before she acted.
This is really disheartening to me.
A polygamous family have never been the right choice for any woman.
Notwithstanding the fact that my mom knows clearly that what she’s about to do is very dangerous, she still make that choice because she didn’t think before she acted.
Now back to you, I know alot of people might have also taken decisions they later regretted even you reading this might have acted wrongly and not putting your sense first before taking decisions because you don’t know the power in thinking before acting.
But what if you did? Would you harness the power?
Well, you could decide that later.
This is a topic that is attached to everyone, so if you have sometimes acted on certain issues about life and about you, and later regretted your actions, this would help you along the way because I’m going to write in detail on how it affects you and also tell you how best to think before you act.
The power in thinking before acting is very strong and could bring you happiness and as the same time could bring sorrow if not directed properly.
This has been the secret behind the success of a lot of great people and also most successful people in the society have being applying this to their lifestyle and it brings them great happiness.
Act on its own is so powerful that it’s not reversible.
As human beings, we should learn to be conscious of things we do so we won’t later regret our actions and even our coming generations won’t see us as a pilot of evil.
As we have all known that there have never being a chance of reverse in time this means that there have never being a chance to amend decisions that are already made.
This is the reason why we must be very careful in taking decisions and always think very deep before acting to anything at all.
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Now, you might be wondering about how to think before you act.
Well, let us walk you through;
Before making any decision try to think deep about what happened to people that have made such decision and consider the outcome of their actions and check maybe if such happens to you it won’t be a regret of action.
Try seeking people’s advice about anything you want to do and use the good advice you were given because not all advice people give you can fetch you a good result.
Another way to think before acting is through thoughts. Try to think and figure out what could be the result of your decisions by yourself as you might be in the best position to tell yourself the truth.
We will be delighted to walk you through what you might stand to loose if you do not think before you act; Here goes…
It brings sadness at the end as a result of fast decision and actions
it could make you not to ever forgive yourself. This is as a result of the fast decision you made. This could also be the saddest moment in one’s life.
it could lead to someone committing suicide there have been alot of people that have committed suicide because of the wrong decisions they made.
If you took our guide above, here is what you stand to gain if you think before putting up any actions;
it brings happiness to you at the end of the act which means that it will make you being proud of yourself and also your action
it could bring respect to you and make other people see you as a role model and prefer to follow your step
it will make people see you as a knowledgeable person because you learn from other people’s mistakes by thinking of what comes out of their decisions and this serves as knowledge to you and make people see you as one.
You do not need to have ears like that of an elephant to understand that each action you wish to take should and must be evaluated by your mind before you even think of putting it in play.
If you indulge us, and use our guide, you might find out that making mistakes will be a hard thing to,come your way whilst you perform outstandingly good to the likes of people.